Greatness Defined (September 14, 2008)

Award winning writer Richard Paul Evans wrote this compelling book about a man who wanted to be great. Building himself a tower taller than any existing edifice, he stayed there and realized that being ‘on top’ means nothing in the end.

What makes a ‘great’ man? I have no idea to this but I can give some examples of traits I find worthy of my respect and admiration.

Determination, the will to stay put and continue had been one of the greatest trait I wish I have and a trait I look for people. Not everyone is bless with riches or intelligence. Not everyone possesses alluring beauty or a multitude of friends. Those who are lacking but know how to fill those weaknesses with strengths are the most determined individuals ever.

Patience is another great trait and only those who possess real patience endure hardships and challenges with a positive outlook.

Selflessness, a trait that is seemingly losing its meaning as more and more people are finding comfort, control and egocentrism as superior and meaningful. Being selfless means not only thinking of oneself but also thinking of others. A selfless person does not ask for rewards nor wait for one. A selfless person acts with a willing spirit and an open heart.

There are many more traits that makes a great man. We just don't need to exert effort to become great, it comes and will come naturally. Being a good mother, a responsible father, a dedicated teacher, a hard working government worker are all but great in their own worlds. So when we put one act of great deed to others, we do a chain reaction of great things to follow.