In one of my few trips around, I met a certain fellow whom for a reason became friendly to me. Seated across the room in a busy restaurant, the server came and greeted me with a smile. "Long time no see!" "You remember me?" I asked, wondering how he could do that when there had been plenty of people visiting the restaurant everyday. My last visit was a month ago where I asked him how to reach the market as I need to purchase some curtains. His joke of "five hours walk" made me smile and I didn't know that he will remember me for that inquiry.
After paying the bill, he asked if I could pick him up after work as he wanted to go out for dinner. I obliged and even when there was rain, I came on time. We walked through the cobblestone pathway quietly while listening to the pitter patter of the rain. I was holding an umbrella while sharing it with him as he push his bicycle towards a small eatery.
We ordered for some noodles and when everything were finished, the story began. His story was indeed moving, same old tales spoken and told by most. While I listened to his woes but with eagerness to survive, I was moved by his honesty and his sharing without barriers.
The rain stopped and we parted ways. While he threaded the walkway towards home I looked back and simply admired his way of thinking. There he was, a mere stranger, wanting a new life. His strength and will to free himself from the bondage of poverty and start life anew in that city had given me a new perspective of what I should be aiming for.
That night, the man wanted someone to listen, and I did. That night, I myself was transformed. My problems are nothing compared to his. I must be thankful. I must learn to give.
We usually think that our problems are like mountains, til we chat with someone and we realize that compared to theirs, ours are just hills.
ReplyDeleteThat's what I felt. I made contact with this person just in case. Thanks again for visiting!
ReplyDeleteThis is why whenever I feel that I can no longer take things, I just almost always try to look at the brighter side and be thankful for the blessings I have.
ReplyDeleteAnd oh, we both have the same last name. :-)
Hi iurico,
ReplyDeleteSame here, the blessings are just overflowing but small things had always been neglected such as the morning sunshine, a butterfly in my garden or a visit from someone with the same last name :)
Thanks for the visit.