Loving someone without any reciprocation is a sign of an unhealthy relationship. The thing to do is to leave and move on with life. It is better for us to suffer in the initial stage of falling in love, waking up from that illusion and getting off emotionally from the feeling of expectation.
We are human beings capable of falling in love with others but there are times that we fall with the wrong person. Sometimes, when we meet someone we tend to give ourselves to them hoping, that one day they will also fall in love and commit. These are hopes, and can lead either to happiness or desperation. And when we become frustrated through the length of time, we feel bitter. Besides, we cannot make anyone love us if they are not willing to do so. It is a fact that an act of love will not merit a return of love all the time. Holding on to that dear love in our heart while we cry in pain and expect for what is not to come is not a healthy sign of living.
So move on, and never tell yourself that you are not good enough for that person. We are good or even better, but that goodness was not seen and appreciated but will be, by others.
We are human beings capable of falling in love with others but there are times that we fall with the wrong person. Sometimes, when we meet someone we tend to give ourselves to them hoping, that one day they will also fall in love and commit. These are hopes, and can lead either to happiness or desperation. And when we become frustrated through the length of time, we feel bitter. Besides, we cannot make anyone love us if they are not willing to do so. It is a fact that an act of love will not merit a return of love all the time. Holding on to that dear love in our heart while we cry in pain and expect for what is not to come is not a healthy sign of living.
So move on, and never tell yourself that you are not good enough for that person. We are good or even better, but that goodness was not seen and appreciated but will be, by others.
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